The sound of silence

The sound of silence

What moving from Hong Kong to London taught me about communication. I used to think silence was empty space that needed filling. Then I learned it was actually full of everything I’d been missing. Picture this: A traditional Hong Kong tea house on a Sunday....
Routes over roots

Routes over roots

I recently watched Haribo Kimchi, a show that, on the surface, is quirky and heartfelt. But underneath, it explores something many of us quietly struggle with: the question of where we belong. One line stuck with me: “Routes are more important than roots.” At first, I...
Why I skip breakfast now

Why I skip breakfast now

For most of my life, I was a breakfast-or-bust kind of person. If I didn’t eat within an hour of waking up, I’d feel dizzy. I once fainted during a morning meeting – all because I skipped breakfast. Since then, I lived by one rule: never leave the house on an...
Facing my mind in meditation

Facing my mind in meditation

When I first started meditating, my mind wouldn’t shut up. I’d sit, breathe, try to be still but within seconds, I’d be off fantasising about dinner, replaying an awkward conversation, or wondering if I should be doing something more “productive.” Sound...
The life-changing power of real listening

The life-changing power of real listening

Listening may mean staying quiet while someone else talks. But true listening builds trust and deepens relationships. It is active, and a presence practice that can be cultivated. Meditation taught me how to notice my thoughts without reacting to them. It helped me...